Side chick

The Little Mermaid was my favorite fairy tale as a kid. 
Unattained love that finally finds its true purpose in complete self-sacrifice... pretty intense, right? The moral of this story is far too deep and true for a short blog post, so I won't get into it here. And of course, I did not really get the whole thing as a kid - in fact, I was quite mad about the lack of happy end. Even more so, there must have been something inside of me that was fascinated, and made me like the story so much despite the sad ending. Maybe it's the same part that made me create this little collage. Maybe it's just a silly thing I did.
So just keep swimming.

Wild ride

Have you heard the story about the woman riding the oversized asparagus all across the universe?
Neither have I, yet there she is.

Tacky

If you are a stripper and in constant search for outfits that are comfy, possibly layered to provide more options for teasing, sexy, easy to take off AND make your ass look good, this is a real struggle. Most of the 2-piece sets that you can buy online and in sex shops also only come in one size, so good luck fitting in it AND looking good at the same time.

Even if you do find one outfit that matches all of your demands, it will probably fall apart after you washed it 2 times. So... this is part of the reason I make a lot of my costumes myself. 

So... stop letting horny, greedy men design cheep outfits that are neither sustainable or practical. Give the job to horny women already. 
;)

Throw more lightning

Just an idea for your mantra this month. 
Now go forth and kick some ass like you're a beautiful fat little angel!

Appreciate the magical Pu$$y

I recently taught a private stripdance lesson at my place. My student was a lovely woman, a little older than me, that had courageously decided to explore her sensual side with me and learn some stripper moves. During the workshop, we not only danced a lot, but worked on the mindset; the role of the strong female that knows what she wants and how she wants it. 
I was showing her a move where I was on the floor, with my weight on my right hand and knee and left foot. My hips were a little off the floor and I was circling and rotating my pelvis. "I call this move: This is my magical power pu$$y and you do not deserve it.", I heard myself say, and had to laugh, because it felt both so silly and so true. It felt like the perfect name for this move and the mindset I was trying to teach.

Maybe it sounds arrogant. Maybe it's a bit strong. But I think I am not the only one who can benefit from sporting this mindset a bit more often. How many times have I done something because I needed validation, the feeling of being accepted, desired? How many women go into bed with someone that does NOT appreciate the value of their magical bodies, their incredibly beautiful souls, their big and open hearts? 

My body does incredible things. It puts up with so much, and I am constantly putting it through challenges, keeping it from falling asleep, bending it into painful positions, making it sweat and work and function, put it into uncomfortable heels, jump into splits, wiggle it in front of more or less appreciative audiences. I sometimes forget how amazing it is that my body is not only working so hard to get me through life, it also is the source of joy, lust and deep wisdom. It tells me when to leave. Whom to trust. It's beautiful, and whoever can not see that does not deserve the magical powerpu$$y that is a part of it. 

That's all. Show your body some love today. And tomorrow. And then some more.

Starting Something New...

I decided to start a blog. Recently, I have really enjoyed expressing myself not only through dancing but in writing, so this is a good platform to explore this side of me a bit more. 

A lot of things have changed since I first started this page four years ago. A lot of wonderful, adventurous and exciting things have happened in my career, and I am incredibly grateful for all the opportunities I got over the years. I also feel like I must have done some things right to achieve this much, although some days I still question everything, feel like I could and should do so much more, and fear that things might not progress much from here. 

Life has its own plan sometimes, and 2020 has done its best to teach this painful lesson to all of us. These days, I feel like everything is shifting and I have to keep moving to keep up with the moving ground underneath my feet and not lose my stand. Especially in the last 2 months, I felt like I am losing everything I used to count on, and my gut feeling for where to go has changed so much, I have no choice than to walk through every open door I see. And for now, that means I am starting a blog. 

In the past couple of weeks, I have had the opportunity to talk about my passion, my job, dealing with hate and jealousy and other topics linked to my part in the current season of The Bachelor in Switzerland. Using my voice and the platforms that were given to me to talk about things that seem to matter to others as well has felt incredible, and I am getting a lot of positive feedback. That's why I felt like it might be time to make this bigger and find more opportunities to bring you my feminist-stripper perspective. 

What do you think? What are some of the topics you would like me to talk about from my point of view? Let me know in the comments and I will try to use your feedback as input for future posts!

so long, 
Eve

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